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I've had my rats for two years and they developed many health problems. Mina got a tumor as big as a golf ball and Bobas legs don't work as well. I was at the pool today and got a call from my dad saying Mina won't move. I ran home and sure enough, she was gone. I'm really struggling right now and it breaks my heart seeing Boba without her best friend. I need coping methods please.
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So sorry to hear about your rat passing.
You and Boba will be able to give each other heaps of support right now, as you will both be missing her terribly.
Another member recently lost their beautiful rat and they did an amazing piece of artwork to help them process it. The art was beautiful and It seemed like a really special way to remember them.
Does that sort of thing appeal to you?
Also, talking with friends and family about Mina could help you come to terms with what's happened.
We also have a family member who takes a little footprint impression in some air dry clay every time we lose a pet rat.
All the best to you. I hope these ideas might help.馃尭
I'm so sorry to hear about the health problems your rats have been experiencing, and especially for the loss of Mina. It's understandable that you're going through a difficult time right now, and coping with the loss of a beloved pet can be challenging. Here are a few coping methods that may help you during this grieving process:
  1. Allow Yourself to Grieve: It's okay to feel sad, upset, and to cry. Acknowledge and accept your emotions as a natural part of the grieving process. Take the time you need to mourn the loss of your dear companion.
  2. Share and Seek Support: Reach out to friends, family, or online communities who understand the bond between humans and pets. Share your feelings and memories of Mina with others who can empathize and provide support during this challenging time.
  3. Create a Memorial: Consider creating a special memorial for Mina to honor her memory. This could be a photo collage, a dedicated space in your home, or planting a tree or flowers in her honor. Having a tangible reminder of your beloved pet can provide comfort and serve as a way to remember the joy she brought to your life.
  4. Focus on the Positive Memories: Reflect on the happy times you shared with Mina. Recall the moments that brought you joy and made your bond special. Remind yourself of the love and care you provided for her throughout her life.
  5. Take Care of Yourself: Self-care is essential during times of loss. Engage in activities that bring you comfort and help alleviate stress. This could include spending time with Boba, engaging in hobbies, practicing relaxation techniques, or seeking solace in nature.
  6. Consider a New Companion: When you feel ready, you may consider getting another rat as a companion for Boba. Introducing a new friend can provide comfort and companionship, both for Boba and for yourself. However, ensure that you are emotionally prepared and have the capacity to care for a new pet.
Remember, everyone grieves differently, and there is no right or wrong way to cope with the loss of a pet. Give yourself time, be patient with yourself, and allow the healing process to unfold naturally. If you find your grief becoming overwhelming or it significantly impacts your daily life, it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or counselor who specializes in pet loss and grief.


Hope this helps!
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So sorry to hear about your rat passing.
You and Boba will be able to give each other heaps of support right now, as you will both be missing her terribly.
Another member recently lost their beautiful rat and they did an amazing piece of artwork to help them process it. The art was beautiful and It seemed like a really special way to remember them.
Does that sort of thing appeal to you?
Also, talking with friends and family about Mina could help you come to terms with what's happened.
We also have a family member who takes a little footprint impression in some air dry clay every time we lose a pet rat.
All the best to you. I hope these ideas might help.馃尭
I love the idea of the clay foot impression! Boba is doing better and my friends always talk to me about it when I need it. I have some old art my little sister made of the rats together and it makes me smile every time.
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