I have 2 female rats, they are 10 months old and i’ve had them for about 4 months and i still can’t pet them or pick them up, anytime i try to they bite me and freak out, what should i do? (I got them from a pet store, and i’m pretty sure they were rarely picked up)
Keep the cage in an area you spend most of your awake time.
Talk to them .... often and by name. Let them get used to the sound of your voice.
Feed them treats often. If you can't hand feed them - use the spoon method. To a rat - food is love.
It take a lot of time and patience to get rats to bond with you. And some trial & error.
Try to not interact with them when you're frustrated .... or walk away if you start to become frustrated.
When they do let you pet them - reward them with a "special" treat .... different from the normal treats and the only time they get it is as a reward for a desired action/response. They will quickly learn that if they do X, they get Y. It encourages the behavior you want.
And be patient.
Yes, I know I said that up ^^ there .... but it's the most critical part - so it's worth repeating.
